Polarity Work

Polarity Work · 18. November 2021
I recently stumbled upon a post one of the teachers I love made, suggesting to use the body rather than words to communicate love and comfort. A lot of people reacted irritated saying they‘d check in first if touch was okay or they personally wouldn‘t want to be touched without consent or their love language wasn‘t physical. While all these considerations are more than needed in a setting where people don‘t know each other well, they can wreck a precious chance for intimate and sexual...
Polarity Work · 27. Oktober 2021
I remember vividly the first time I realized that the problem in a marital clash of opinions was actually not him but me. I don‘t remember what we were fighting over, but probably the education of our kids as this was a frequent and favorite source of conflict until very recently. It must have been some 16 years into or marriage and it was what we usually did: I would feel dominated by his stricter opinions on the subject and he‘d feel left out and bossed around by me. These fights usually...